Thursday

Something I've never thought of before!































Check this video out. This girl does a lot that isn't all that hot. But she does one thing that I had never seen before (and have since implemented in my own fucking arsenal). It's important to note her confidence. It seems like she's somewhat new and trying a lot of this. Not embarrassed that she's maybe not the best at fucking, but instead being comfortable and confident with getting there.

Let's get to the video breakdown.

At 4:20, I think she's pretty hot with the way she takes his balls in her mouth. And then at 4:55 when she hits his inner thigh. This is an awesome spot to pay attention to. But not primary attention. More like secondary attention. Meaning that when you're giving attention to his inner thighs you should also be jacking him off, playing with his balls, massaging his asshole. Something like that.

Now around 5:20, what she's doing looks super hot. But you might want to be careful about it with your guy. If your guy is a little insecure about his body, he might not like so much primary attention to it. Sort of like you wouldn't want your cottage cheese pointed out during sex. This doesn't mean you can't do what she's doing here. You totally can. Just make sure it isn't the primary point of focus. An example of what I mean is what she does next.

What she does at 6:40 is hot and I've never seen it (and it's the point of this post). First off, the way she's fucking him at that point is amazing on it's own. My guy absolutely loves when I fuck him like that. But what is more amazing? Sucking his nipples and licking them at the same time! Never thought of that 'till I saw this. Just another great example of how porn is killer. Never would have thought of this.

At like 7:55 you hear the guy say something really good. "Push your butt all the way to my balls." This is a great way to put it. Think of your pussy like a hand that's jerking your guy off. Imagine if you only went up and down half way when you jerk him off. It would suck, right? Same thing for your pussy. Yeah, you might have to put your back into it a little more, but it's worth it! So think of your pussy as a hand and think of fucking as a handjob. Jerk him off with your pussy from top to bottom. Dig your ass deep into his balls and go up to the point where he almost falls out to make sure you get full penetration. Aside from that, the way she fucks him in this position is just so so. Not that hot. Not terrible either. But could totally do better.

At 8:45. Now this is a great way to give your guy head. VERY important. Ladies, how hot does her ass and pussy look? Hot, right? Well how gross would it look if she wasn't waxed? Gross, right? Now imagine how it effects your guy who's supposed to be more sexually into a girl's ass and pussy than you are. If it were gross to you on someone else, then it's a total turn off to your guy when it's you. Look at your ass and pussy all the time with a mirror. It's not hard. Don't be ass and pussy ignorant ;) Oh and make sure you showered and washed your ass with the mindset that someone is going to eat off of it. Nothing is worse than a smelly ass. Nothing. Back to the head. Now bending over like this is the best way to make your ass and pussy look fucking hot. You don't need to give him head like this for a long time but when you do make sure you don't come across like it's stressfully difficult work. That's never hot for either of you. In fact, act it out on your own to make sure you're even flexible enough to do this. If you're not, this isn't that crazy of a position. You need to stretch daily for a few months and get more flexible ;)

At 9:40 she does something important. Fast transition. She sucks his dick and rushes to get her pussy around it when she takes her mouth of his dick. Smooth, fast transitions are super important for guys. You know how for us to cum we need consistent motion or movements without any breaks? And how if there's a break we can go from ALMOST there to back to square one? Very similar for guys. Imagine it like you're pumping a tire by his dick being jerked back and forth (either by your mouth, hand, or pussy). Whenever you stop, air comes out of the tire twice as fast as you put it in. And you can't put the cap on the tire until you finish (when he cums). Now that doesn't mean you have to be in emergency mode and fuck your man at crazy, top speed. But it does mean that you need to have constant motion and smooth, FAST transitions between sucking his dick, fucking him, jerking him off, and anything else. This is unbelievably important for guys (as it is for us girls).

At 9:50. Now we're talking. Fucking his dick from top to bottom. Fucking your guy on top like this (or like this when facing him) is the hottest way to fuck him. At least right now it is. It's almost like you've got the dick, he's got the pussy, and you're fucking giving it to him hard. Make sure you fuck your guy like this. And when you do, make sure you fuck the whole length of his dick. Not just two inches. The problem with this one is that it's kind of hard to tell how good you are at it. This is where making your own sextapes is great. First off, having your own sextapes is fucking hot. It gives your guy something to jack off to when you're away and I absolutely love masturbating to my own sex tapes :) But it also is a great way to see the difference between how I think I'm doing something and how I'm actually doing something. What I think I look like and what I actually look like.

Having said that, PLEASE be in control of what happens to the sextape. Don't let your guy have the video unless you trust him explicitly. If he's a normal guy, he'll make a copy immediately without you knowing it for that off chance that you guys break up. Guys love having stuff like that and girls hate having stuff like that out there. Girls, you need to protect yourselves. You keep the sextape until you are in a VERY trusting relationship.

Now around 10:20, she slows down. She basically stops fucking the top of his dick. If you find yourself doing this, do one of two things. Switch positions. Half assed fucking sucks. It's not fun for you and it's sure as fuck isn't fun for him. The other thing is just fucking do it! Working your ass off to fuck your guy all hot like is so attractive for your guy. Think of it as getting off on how hard you're working. That fucking is so worth it that you'll feel a little burn in your legs for it. And remind yourself that pornstars aren't superheroes. If they do it, you can do it. Obviously, some women will have biological advantages. The chick that's bouncing on her guy's dick while doing the splits obviously has some advantages that I don't have unless I stretch for a year straight. But the normal stuff? You got it. It might take you a few practice sessions, but you got it.

10:40. Now this is a position I don't recommend. Not so much the position but specifically the rocking back and forth approach. Notice how much of his dick she's fucking. Not much. The top and bottom of his dick length are being neglected. Like I always say, you might as well jerk your guy off and go up and down only an inch or two. You would NEVER do that with your hand, would you? So why would you do that with your pussy? Don't.

Not saying that you should never fuck from this position. Just do it only so often. And don't spend a lot of time in this position when you do use it. She spends way too much time, in my opinion.

13:40. Wow. Now this is a tricky one. But actually watch this closely. In fact, watch it twice. I don't see how any one could watch it with an open mind and not be turned on. I think there's a slightly better way to do this (as hot as it is). Try and bring your head as close to your knees as possible and make your ass as tall as possible. This way you can use your hips in a humping motion instead of moving your whole body back and forth robotically.

17:20. Her bra. If you have something like this, use it. Notice how it's almost pushing up her tits? Just make sure it's deep enough below, getting under your tits so it doesn't make them look weird. A good rule of thumb is for it to be far from the nipples. This girl's obviously hot on her own, but how hot does that look?

18:35. The cumshot. This is a great example of how not to have your guy cum all over your face. Eyes closed. Face weird looking. Not paying attention to his cum. Almost in a trance like state while she's clearly trying to cope with having cum on her face, in her mouth, on her tongue, and whatever else. Another plus to the sextape right here. If you look like this, you need to know it. Imagine your guy rubbing your clit and right when you cum he checks the TV for football scores. It doesn't matter how sweet or hot he was to you before that. He just ruined it. Don't ruin it. Don't take a cumshot like this girl.

Cara the Sexpert