How to be more sexually charged.

Sexuality is amazing. But as women, we are often taught that we are different or odd if we have strong sex drives. We're taught this, almost subconsciously, from an early age. It takes some undoing.

One question I get is from women who honestly want to heighten their sex drive, but don't know how.

I think the greatest way is to find things that turn you on, and take part in those things all the time. One great way is by finding sexual imagery that turns you on. Thankfully, in the 21st century, sexuality is moving from simple porn to visual artistry.

So if you're wanting to be more sexual (which your guy will love - as will you in the long run), here's my advice.

First off, surround yourself with other women who are a) completely normal and b) wildly sexual.

That might be difficult for someone in middletown, Ohio. And that's what blogs are for. Take 20 minutes (or a lot more ;) out of your day and read through some of the awesome sexually charged blogs out there. There are so many of them now. I'm one, for example. A totally normal girl who absolutely loves fucking, naked women, porn, you name it, and loves sharing my sexual perspective on the matter. And there are others that are entirely based upon beautiful, artistic, sexual imagery. Not beautiful to women in the sense of old (where everything is sweet, soft, and slow). But where hardcore is made shockingly beautiful. Here are some great places to start.

Cloud 9. I'm kind of obsessed with this girl. She seems so normal and down to earth, yet she absolutely loves sex. You can tell it's on her mind all the time. This is such a turn on. She loves all of it too. Hardcore, beautiful imagery, threesomes, anal... she's just so fucking hot. Any girl that says she wants her guy to fuck her like a little slut? That's one hot bitch. I love her honest answers to questions that her readers ask. It's a dream of mine for my guy and me to fuck her on some trip out to France one day (where she lives).

Another amazing one is nsfworld.com. I don't know that this is a girl, but my hunch is that it is. If not, it's a guy who knows his shit. Amazing taste.

Lady Cheeky is another fun one.

And if you only check out one, be sure to check out Dolly Rose. She's almost an obsession of mine lately. She's adorable. She's sweet. She's so hungry for incredible sex. The way she craves it absolutely turns me on. She's brave - showing her tits and ass every so often. If you're looking for some sexy slutiness to be rubbed off on you, she's a great start ;)


Like I said, cruise sites like this like 20ish minutes every day. It keeps sex on your mind, educates you in general (on the issue of sex and what's hot), and generally makes you more sexually tense - anticipating the next time you can get fucked hard! A good rule of them is the longer you go without keeping sex on your brain, the less sexually charged (and more boring) you'll become (or remain).

If you're not ready for a sexual experience with a woman or a threesome (even though I highly encourage both!), show your guy this and say "please???". I cum so hard when my guy licks my ass and rubs my pussy. In fact, I can't wait to have him work my ass as soon as I finish this post... As usual, make sure you're fucking hairless and clean as a whistle! So long as you are, he'll fucking love it to death.

Another thing you can do? Masturbate. Open this post, stare at this clip, and rub your pussy till you cum (or another clip/pic/vid that grabbed your attention when you saw it). Women feel like men are the only visual creatures out here and that just doesn't have to be the case. So many women are completely missing out on what is one of the great sexual stimulators out there - the visual. The sooner you become stimulated by what you see, the sooner your sexual drive will grow stronger.

VERY IMPORTANT. My blog is not a one pump chump. Every one of my posts are not the types of things you read once and move on from. Women need reminders with this stuff (just like men need plenty of their own reminders). If you read my posts once, you will move on and forget the advice. In order to be more sexually charged, you need constant reminders. Without them, the laundry, work, being tired, and every thing else will win. And when they win, you become a boring housewife in the bed. And when you become a boring housewife in bed, it fucks up your entire day (or life). Sex is as primal as it gets. It goes to our core. Women want to think that this stuff only matters to guys, but the main reason I have this blog is because I know that the sexier women are fucking, the more they feel like slutty pornstars, the happier they are.

Cara the Sexpert.